Are you feeling stuck in your relationship, unsure how to reconnect, or anxious about intimacy?
Many people I work with love their partners deeply but feel frustrated, misunderstood, or under pressure to “get it right.”
Common Issues I Can Support You With
PeopIe work with often say things like…
“My partner is so unhappy and I’m scared they’ll leave, but I don’t know how to fix this.”
“I’ve been unfaithful / they've been unfaithful and I don’t know how we come back from it.”
“I keep distracting myself with porn or my phone instead of actually being present.”
“She says I don’t listen, that I don’t ‘get it’… and I honestly don’t know what she wants from me.”
“On paper my life is good – but at home it feels tense, distant and lonely.”
If that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.
I offer one-to-one therapy for people in Peterborough who want to work on their relationships – whether you’re dealing with affairs and betrayal, too much porn and online distraction, or a partner who is deeply unhappy and thinking about leaving.
My clients are usually good people who are motivated to change… even if, at first, they’re hoping everyone else will change instead. Together, we slow things down so you can really see what’s going on, understand your partner more clearly, and recognise the places where you have the power to do something different.
I don’t sit in judgement. I help you make sense of what’s happening, take responsibility without drowning in shame, and learn practical ways to show up differently in your relationship.
If you’re looking for relationship counselling in Peterborough – or
psychotherapy online anywhere in the UK – this is the work I do every day.
You don’t have to do this on your own.
Hi I'm Lou Crosby
When your relationship looks fine on the outside but doesn’t feel it underneath
A qualified BSc (Hons) Counsellor & Psychotherapist based in Peterborough, Cambridgeshire.
I work with adults who feel disconnected in their relationships, whether that shows up as distance, tension, or a loss or mismatch of
intimacy.
Together, we’ll explore what’s happening beneath the surface so you can communicate more honestly, feel more at ease in yourself, and rebuild genuine closeness.
Ready to talk?
Book a free 15-minute consultation or send me a message to see if therapy feels right for you.
About Lou
I take an active, supportive role in your therapy, gently guiding you as we work through the patterns that are keeping you stuck. Together, we’ll make sense of your self-doubt, anxiety, or confusion, and I’ll help you build practical relational skills you can actually use in your day-to-day life.
When we explore new ways forward, I’ll encourage you to try them at your own pace, actively supporting you to find your voice and take action in ways that genuinely work for you.
This isn’t just about being heard and gaining
insight, it’s about doing things differently, in a way that feels right for you.
How I Can Help You
I specialise in working with relationship difficulties, in Peterborough, supporting those who feel unappreciated or disconnected despite their efforts to keep everyone happy.
You may be longing for change in the type and/or frequency of the intimacy you're experiencing, but you end up
getting caught in cycles of blame, criticism, or withdrawal.
Think of this as relationship counselling just for you: a space to understand patterns, rebuild confidence, and learn to communicate with openness and honesty.
Together, we’ll build the skills you need to feel valued, supported, and close again.
1 hr 30 min
95 British pounds
1 hr
75 British pounds
Ready to Get Started?
I offer individual and
counselling from my private therapy space in the north of Peterborough, with free parking and the option to meet online anywhere in the UK.
You don't need a referral, you can make an appointment directly with me.
Your first session is an opportunity to see if we’re a good fit and to discuss what you’d like to get from therapy.