You’ve landed here because something in your relationship feels off.
Maybe there’s been a rupture, something that’s shaken the trust between you. Or you’ve found yourselves caught in patterns that lead to tension, arguments, or distance that doesn’t quite resolve.
You care about your partner, and you don’t want things to stay like this. You might be wondering how to repair what’s happened, how to cut through what’s sitting between you, or how to bring something more connected, alive and real back into the relationship.
I often work with people who are ready to take responsibility for their part, and who genuinely want to make things better, but aren’t sure how to get there on their own.
Common Issues I Can Support You With
People I work with often say things like…
“My partner is so unhappy and I’m scared they’ll leave, but I don’t know how to fix this.”
“I’ve been unfaithful - or they have - and I don’t know if we can come back from it.”
“I keep checking out… on my phone, online, anywhere but actually being present.”
“She says I don’t listen, that I don’t ‘get it’… and I honestly don’t know what she wants from me.”
“On paper my life is good, but at home it feels tense, distant and lonely.”
If any of that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.
I offer one-to-one therapy for people who want to take their relationship seriously, whether you’re dealing with betrayal, disconnection, or the growing sense that something needs to change before it’s too late.
Most of my clients are decent, thoughtful people who care about their partner and want to make things better. They’re often at a point where something has gone wrong - or keeps going wrong- and they don’t want to keep repeating the same patterns.
Together, we slow things down so you can really see what’s happening, understand your partner more clearly, and recognise where you have the power to do something different.
I don’t sit in judgement. I help you make sense of what’s going on, take responsibility without drowning in shame, and find practical ways to show up differently in your relationship.
If you’re looking for relationship counselling in Peterborough - or online anywhere in the UK- this is the work I do every day.
You don’t have to do this on your own.
Hi I'm Lou Crosby
When your relationship looks fine on the outside but doesn’t feel it underneath
A qualified BSc (Hons) Counsellor & Psychotherapist based in Peterborough, Cambridgeshire.
I work with adults who feel disconnected in their relationships, whether that shows up as distance, tension, or a loss or mismatch of
intimacy.
Together, we’ll explore what’s happening beneath the surface so you can communicate more honestly, feel more at ease in yourself, and rebuild genuine closeness.
Ready to talk?
Book a free 15-minute consultation or send me a message to see if therapy feels right for you.
About Lou
I take an active, supportive role in your therapy, gently guiding you as we work through the patterns that are keeping you stuck. Together, we’ll make sense of your self-doubt, anxiety, or confusion, and I’ll help you build practical relational skills you can actually use in your day-to-day life.
When we explore new ways forward, I’ll encourage you to try them at your own pace, actively supporting you to find your voice and take action in ways that genuinely work for you.
This isn’t just about being heard and gaining
insight, it’s about doing things differently, in a way that feels right for you.
How I Can Help You
I specialise in working with relationship difficulties: supporting people who care about their partner, but know something isn’t working and don’t want things to keep going the way they are.
You might be dealing with tension that keeps resurfacing, a breakdown in trust, or a growing sense of distance between you. You may want things to feel closer, easier, or more connected, but instead find yourselves caught in cycles of blame, misunderstanding, or withdrawal.
This is a space just for you. Not couples therapy, but a place to step back and really understand what’s happening, so you can start to shift the patterns you’re part of.
Together, we’ll slow things down, make sense of what’s been going on, and focus on what you can do differently. That might mean learning how to communicate more clearly, take responsibility in a way that actually helps, or show up in your relationship in a way that rebuilds trust and connection.
1 hr 30 min
95 British pounds
1 hr
75 British pounds
Ready to Get Started?
I offer individual and
counselling from my private therapy space in the north of Peterborough, with free parking and the option to meet online anywhere in the UK.
You don't need a referral, you can make an appointment directly with me.
Your first session is an opportunity to see if we’re a good fit and to discuss what you’d like to get from therapy.